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Mus\u00ed to b\u00fdt…","datePublished":"2021-09-13","dateModified":"2023-05-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.vespapv.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.vespapv.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06473a178d94fb830b46e277369729e9534f2612e261ec2f1ee96b672ef473e2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06473a178d94fb830b46e277369729e9534f2612e261ec2f1ee96b672ef473e2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"vespapv.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.vespapv.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/family-1237701_960_720.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.vespapv.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/family-1237701_960_720.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.vespapv.cz\/jsou-pro-nas-deti-radost-nebo-pritez\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":789,"articleBody":"\u00a0Je kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 m\u00edt d\u011bti. Napl\u0148uj\u00ed n\u00e1s l\u00e1skou. P\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed n\u00e1m ka\u017ed\u00fdm dnem radost. Postupn\u011b se na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b rozv\u00edj\u00ed a my vid\u00edme jeho pokroky. \u010casto si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me, jak je mo\u017en\u00e9, co ti mali\u010dc\u00ed tvorov\u00e9 dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed. Od \u010dlov\u00ed\u010dka, kter\u00e9 se narod\u00ed bezbrann\u00e9, se z\u00a0n\u011bho st\u00e1v\u00e1 \u0161ikovn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a chyt\u0159ej\u0161\u00ed miminko. Mus\u00ed to b\u00fdt po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e1 maka\u010dka pro d\u00edtko, aby se v\u016fbec nau\u010dilo v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 vlastn\u011b nikdy nevid\u011blo. Sice mu se v\u0161\u00edm pom\u00e1haj\u00ed rodi\u010de, ale ve fin\u00e1le je na n\u011bm, jak se s\u00a0t\u00edm popere. M\u016f\u017eeme mu pomoci t\u00edm, \u017ee mu to uleh\u010d\u00edme. My p\u0159ihl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme, jak se na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b zdokonaluje a m\u00e1me radost z\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00e9ho \u00fasp\u011bchu. D\u00edt\u011b je dar, kter\u00fd nen\u00ed samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0D\u00edt\u011b na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b\u00a0Ano, d\u00edt\u011b na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b, my a\u017e na druh\u00e9m. N\u00e1\u0161 z\u00e1jem by m\u011bl b\u00fdt ten, aby n\u00e1\u0161 potomek prosp\u00edval ve v\u0161ech sm\u011brech. V\u011bnujeme mu ve\u0161ker\u00fd \u010das, kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017eeme. Je jasn\u00e9, kdy\u017e m\u00e1 hlad a my tak\u00e9, \u017ee se nenaj\u00edme jako prvn\u00ed. M\u011bli bychom ho ve v\u0161em up\u0159ednost\u0148ovat, proto\u017ee se samo o sebe nepostar\u00e1 a pot\u0159ebuje n\u00e1s. A nen\u00ed t\u00edm my\u0161leno, jeho z\u00e1kladn\u00ed pot\u0159eby, ale i pozornost k\u00a0n\u011bmu. Pokud jde o jeho jak\u00e9koliv pot\u0159eby, mus\u00edme tu b\u00fdt v\u017edy pro n\u011bj, za v\u0161ech okolnost\u00ed. Kdy\u017e si chceme odpo\u010dinout, po\u010dk\u00e1me si na tu chv\u00edli, kdy sp\u00ed nebo je s\u00a0druh\u00fdm rodi\u010dem, \u010di jin\u00fdm \u010dlenem rodiny. V\u017edy se d\u00e1 naj\u00edt kompromis, aby bylo v\u0161e vyrovnan\u00e9.\u00a0\u00a0\u00danava a stres\u00a0\u00danava, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1s prov\u00e1z\u00ed od narozen\u00ed na\u0161eho potomka, je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. To mali\u010dk\u00e9 je na n\u00e1s odk\u00e1zan\u00e9 a neobejde se bez na\u0161i pomoci. A net\u00fdk\u00e1 se to jen \u010derstv\u011b narozen\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. Ta \u00fanava a zodpov\u011bdnost se s\u00a0n\u00e1mi vle\u010de do doby, ne\u017e dosp\u011bje. I kdy\u017e poci\u0165ujeme nesm\u00edrnou radost a \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, sp\u00e1nek a energie n\u00e1m chyb\u00ed. Proto jsou i maminky ob\u010das podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u00e9. Vezm\u011bte si, \u017ee pokud je \u010dlov\u011bk svobodn\u00fd, m\u00e1 zodpov\u011bdnost pouze s\u00e1m za sebe. V\u0161e si pl\u00e1nujete podle sebe, bez ohledu na ostatn\u00ed. Je to ale jin\u00e9, kdy\u017e n\u00e1m do \u017eivota vkro\u010d\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b. U\u017e nekopete sami za sebe, ale i za toho drobe\u010dka. Najednou se n\u00e1m v\u0161e zm\u011bn\u00ed, proto\u017ee \u017eivot se p\u0159estane to\u010dit kolem n\u00e1s. D\u00e1 se ale v\u0161e zvl\u00e1dnout, pokud chceme. \u00a0\u00a0Pro n\u011bkoho d\u00edt\u011b, jako p\u0159\u00edt\u011b\u017e\u00a0Pro n\u011bkoho, kdo nechce d\u011bti, je to asi p\u0159irozen\u00e9. Ale pokud se rozhodneme, \u017ee chceme d\u011bti a m\u00e1me je, pro\u010d je vn\u00edm\u00e1me jako p\u0159\u00edt\u011b\u017e? Je to t\u00edm, \u017ee n\u00e1m vzaly svobodu a n\u00e1\u0161 voln\u00fd \u010das? Je to snad na\u0161e sobeckost, \u017ee se nedok\u00e1\u017eeme n\u011b\u010deho vzd\u00e1t? Pro\u010d se neradi d\u011bl\u00edme o \u017eivot?\u00a0R\u00e1no si vst\u00e1v\u00e1me kdy chceme a nikdo po n\u00e1s nic nechce. Nasn\u00edd\u00e1me se, kdy chceme. Pijeme k\u00e1vu, kdy se n\u00e1m zl\u00edb\u00ed. Star\u00e1me se jen o sebe a svoje pot\u0159eby. Ned\u011bl\u00edme se o sv\u016fj \u010das. Neseme zodpov\u011bdnost jen sami za sebe. Netah\u00e1 n\u00e1s nikdo za tri\u010dko a nehul\u00e1k\u00e1. Jsme na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b.M\u00e1 to, ale svoje velk\u00e9 ALE!\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0D\u00edt\u011b, jako n\u00e1\u0161 odkaz\u00a0V\u011bt\u0161ina z\u00a0n\u00e1s, si nedovede p\u0159edstavit d\u011bti nem\u00edt. Co by po n\u00e1s z\u016fstalo? Pokud m\u00e1me d\u011bti, s\u00a0jistotou v\u00edme, \u017ee na\u0161e krev pokra\u010duje po generace d\u00e1l. Nese na\u0161e jm\u00e9no, a jsme na to hrd\u00ed. Ka\u017ed\u00fd den se probouz\u00edme s\u00a0pocitem, \u017ee tu pro n\u011bkoho jsme. Je to n\u00e1\u0161 potomek, co se na n\u00e1s sm\u011bje a d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u00e1m kr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed den, i kdy\u017e n\u00e1s rozzlob\u00ed. U\u010d\u00ed se od n\u00e1s, a my se z\u00a0toho radujeme.\u00a0D\u011bti n\u00e1m d\u011blaj\u00ed veselej\u0161\u00ed \u017eivot. Tak jako oni pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed n\u00e1s, my pot\u0159ebujeme je, aby se ka\u017ed\u00fd z\u00a0n\u00e1s posunul d\u00e1l a vydal se spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm sm\u011brem. D\u011bti milujeme a nebereme jako p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eku. \u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (12 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jsou pro n\u00e1s d\u011bti radost nebo p\u0159\u00edt\u011b\u017e?","item":"https:\/\/www.vespapv.cz\/jsou-pro-nas-deti-radost-nebo-pritez\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]